Connecting with your partner on the mental level and being physically attracted to them are not the only elements to a successful relationship. There are others things which when they are not present, may make the previous two irrelevant as well.
The other elements are as follows;
This is relevant to write on because many people are in relationships where no emotions are involved. When you do not like, care, value or/and adore someone, it becomes quite difficult to treat the person right, to appreciate the person, to be willing to stick with the person during rough times. It is better when one harbours some feelings for the other before the relationship starts which may result in the emotions growing deeper and stronger. A relationship without an iota of emotions cannot even pass for a friendship. You should be eager to be with the person and happy when you do, be willing to be open to the other, trust the person amongst other things. Apart from the absence of physical attraction, inadequate emotional attraction can lead to a deficiency in the sex life of a couple.
4. SOCIAL ELEMENT
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It is true that, we should not live our lives completely based on what others say or think but there are instances when they see or perceive things that we cannot. We have all had one experience or another when a friend, colleague, relative, acquaintance prevented us from making mistakes or gave us sound advice which we may have taken and benefited or didn’t and regretted later. Nonetheless, not every detail of our relationships must be shared to third parties. Another aspect of this element is having similar societal interests. It doesn’t have to be the same or far-fetched. One has to complement the other but not to the unbearable or unrealistic extent.
5. SPIRITUAL/RELIGIOUS ELEMENT
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Most unreligious people (no offense intended) will not see the relevance of this but others will. The relevance of a blessing in the relationship by God (or whichever supreme being you believe in) surpasses that of any other element. It provides that kind of assurance that no matter what, you know you are with the right person, the person made for you, ‘the one’, It clears all possible doubts. You also get access to a one-stop solution haven. Some people also say that when you are meant to be with someone, your spirits connect, I really do not know the details of that but it sounds pretty deep, exceptional and necessary as well.
Conclusion: The Five Elements – physical, mental, emotional, social and spiritual are never at their full capacity but they shouldn’t be significantly lacking either. If you feel like there is an element or two that is more important to you and your partner than the others, then feel free to work on them better as every relationship is different.
Question: Amongst these three, which do you prioritize over the others and why? If none, then which do you value out of all the five?
These are all the elements I have in mind to be significant. If you have anything to say such as a suggestion or constructive criticism or experience or opinion, then comment on this post but if it is private or personal contact me on Instagram @cee_jay_lynn and I will get back to you.
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Thank You for Reading and Good Luck!!!!
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